Kafka does not give us any answers to these questions, but really challenges us to reflect on them ourselves, and to perhaps see some parallels to this in our own lives. The whole story could be seen as a miniature version of all too many desperate, futile lives that people live today -- they yearn for something, but meekly, perhaps out of some defect in their characters (a defect but perhaps also a virtue -- that of trust and obedience or deference to authority) fail to attain what they yearn for.
We could probably go on analyzing this tale for some time. I find the it to be quite deep and rich in meaning, and that's why I love it.
Kafka intended to be a chemical engineer, but he studied law at his father's request. He had talent for writing, but stuck being a clerk drafting legal documents.
I had (have) a very similar story. At the time I read Kafka's "the process" and then consecutively this story, I had felt helplessness in insufferable amount. Computers were all that interested me, I believed I was really talented, I always believed that İ had a calling. But in real life, I had little prospects for getting into college, although I was a real good student.
At the end I conceded like I always do, and started Law School.
I guess Kafka's trying to say that don't be a conformist, stand up for your self. The protagonist (of the Process, which includes this story as far as I can remember) had a job (but he didn't like it), he had a girlfriend (but he didn't care for it). He didn't enjoy life, he He believed that he had to accept everything imposed upon him and this got him killed.
[1] - http://records.viu.ca/~johnstoi/kafka/beforethelaw.htm