> My wife and I have discussed this multiple times before, and feel the exact same way. All she wants is regular inclusion!
Heck, I know people who just want acknowledgement of their existence. The "other" category is not a great place to be. That also ignores when institutions divert resources away that were given to the institution to help the forgotten.
I think it is clear her gender has worked against her several times in the past. When she was running her startup, some suppliers would tell her to put them in touch with a decision maker, despite her clearly being one of two founders/execs.
The counter argument I have heard was: "this doesn't help create change in the industry".