Given that, your fourth bullet point would point in the direction of insurance companies preferring the state pools to selling to companies one at a time.
The problem with the state pools is not (for the most part) one of size, but of adverse selection.
Regardless, if universal health coverage is a goal, the only way to truly amortize risk is to have everyone in one pool. Anything less pits some very perverse incentives against an inherently inefficient market. It's no wonder no one wants to participate!
I hear you about universal health coverage. I've come around to the idea that we should have it at the national level above some sort of cap. I think free markets can still work when it comes to your annual checkup or small expenses like a broken arm or a monthly prescription for non esoteric drugs.
* Insurers are not pulling out of the insurance market.
* Insurers are pulling out of selling to individuals.
* This is happening because selling to large groups (like entire companies) is easier/more profitable.
* It is easier to sell to larger groups because you have greater numbers across which to amortize risk.
* The largest group of Americans one could envision selling insurance to is...ALL Americans.
So, by pulling out of the unprofitable individual marketplace in order to focus on selling to larger groups, these insurance companies are practically shouting at us what anyone with half a head already knows: single payer is the only practical, efficient, and cost effective solution for universal coverage.