Which city are you in ? If you're in Delhi, I'm happy to share stories of my misery ;) I'll buy.

91springboard events are pretty good and non-hypey. Headstart Network (though they have reduced their activities quite a bit).

Hasgeek events in Bangalore are borderline - the tech content is good, but has a fair amount of "unicorn" domination, which tends to worsen the therapy.

We had organized a "Reboot Conference" in delhi for failed founders [1]. Pretty damn awesome... could not follow through with it because of lack of time.

[1] https://www.slideshare.net/akshayblitz/reboot-conference-del...