I love this phrase, it really seems to catch the problem with all these decentralised projects.
Sure I could try to set up whatever matrix/status/appnet/tent decentralised service of the month happens to be on the front page of HN but also I could just not do that and use Twitter.
The other thing is they all want to take over the entire domain you use them on. Either you have to use a subdomain (which means you can't use your cool [email protected] address) or you forfeit your domain to whatever advert the software brings with it.
Honestly I've just given up with them. I use Twitter, I use Facebook, I use Dropbox and I do things other than trying to run my own versions of those in my free time
That's not true. Many such projects use /.well-known/ to provide the ability to redirect from the root example.com identity to where you should actually go to send things.