Re:Mike Replies To A Slightly Offended, Not Very Enthusiasti...
by pyre on Thursday June 17, 2010 @09:17PM
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So everyone in the scouts has to be a goal-oriented go-getter? I had no idea that I was a net drain on the scouts simply for not being a type-a personality.
What I read into your comment is more along the lines of:
I think that the boys should be on 'this' projected curve
of achievement going into the future, but these other boys
that have no goal of meeting my projected curve are distracting
the other boys that need to spend 100% of their time with
their eyes on the prize.
If the other scouts really are interested in making it to Eagle Scout then they will remain focused enough to get there. You have to consider the possibility that some boys will see it as a goal because they feel it is expected of them, but it doesn't hold any personal value to them. The uninterested boys that you see as a net drain are maybe the boys who have personally made the decision that they do not want to strive for that goal. Their decision could be affecting the other boys by showing them that not striving for Eagle Scout is also acceptable (but maybe they won't voice that aloud because their parents are the 'driving force' behind 'you must obtain Eagle Scout').
On the other hand, if you’re committed to the troop and activities, but are simply not interested in eagle, (as many here have pointed out) – then yes, I agree.