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Re:How I Used Twilio, Python and Google to Automate My Wedding by pjc50 on Thursday April 13, 2017 @07:29AM (#14105901)
I've kept every wedding invitation I've ever received. They take up a small corner of my "personal memories" shoebox. I don't really understand how you can have nowhere to keep them unless you're living out of a suitcase.
Re:How I Used Twilio, Python and Google to Automate My Wedding by beart on Thursday April 13, 2017 @09:00AM (#14106413)
How often do you pull those old wedding invitations out and what value do you get by holding onto them?
Re:How I Used Twilio, Python and Google to Automate My Wedding by pjc50 on Thursday April 13, 2017 @10:28AM (#14107213)
Rarely. Certainly not more than once a year; if I'm adding a new one to the box, I might leaf through the old ones. But it's a nice sense of joy and continuity, and I can of course know that they're there without having to even open the box. The emotional value like most mementoes varies over time, but trends gradually upwards.

(I do wonder if all the people who say "collect memories, not things" have more vivid, eidetic memories than I do; mine can be a little fragmentary without help.)

Re:How I Used Twilio, Python and Google to Automate My Wedding by criddell on Thursday April 13, 2017 @12:37PM (#14108560)
For things that I want to remember I take a photo and then get rid of the item.

I began doing this when my kids started school and would bring home new art every day. I love that they made a portrait of me by gluing macaroni to a paper plate then covering it in glitter, but I don't necessarily want to become the caretaker of that masterpiece forever.

Re:How I Used Twilio, Python and Google to Automate My Wedding by cableshaft on Friday April 14, 2017 @10:00AM (#14114459)
Jimmy shows dad his new masterpiece.

"That's great Jimmy! Now let me get my camera..."

SNAP!

"There, now we've got that memory forever. Now open the trash can and throw it away!"

I know you don't literally do this, but that's what your comment made me think and it gave me a chuckle. How long do you usually hold on to them?

Re:How I Used Twilio, Python and Google to Automate My Wedding by criddell on Friday April 14, 2017 @10:36AM (#14114674)
My kids are teenagers now, so the flow of glitter and glue art has slowed considerably.

There was no rigid routine. Things would go in a pile and periodically the pile would go to the recycling bin.

Re:How I Used Twilio, Python and Google to Automate My Wedding by pmarreck on Thursday April 13, 2017 @09:17AM (#14106551)
I think the fundamental dilemma here is between the "packrat" and the "thrifty liver"

I have a box with all my old handwritten letters from just before the Internet and email exploded. I rarely take it out, but when I do, it's kind of neat to show my niece and nephew.