In my observation, there is a ton of survivorship bias in attitudes about STEM education.

"I had some quirk in my history that motivated me to slog through years of seemingly meaningless crap to get to where I am today. It worked out great for me! Now I can't imagine any other path actually working for anybody else."

The kids don't have to become professional Software Developers just because they learn a bit of programming. I let my kids draw, too, and don't expect them to become professional artists.

I think I know what you are getting at, there certainly seems to be the bias of Software Development being the best profession in the world.

But with STEM in general, what I personally care about is teach my kids rational and logical thinking, and of course the ability to build things. Occasionally I ponder dong a sewing course together with my kids, and I might one day. It's nice to have skills that you can build things with. But it is hard to beat the possibilities you have with programming.

Besides, it is a skill that could come in handy in many other professions, as well as a fallback line. Also, it is unfortunately the only thing I am good at, so what else am I supposed to teach my kids?