1. Local folks taking turns calling a handful of BBSes.
2. BBSes synchronizing some messages with each other, even long-distance.
3. BBSes providing some limited Internet services (email, newsgroups).
4. Quasi-Internet services like Prodigy, Compuserve, AOL.
5. Slow but "real" Internet access. All content available but still had to ration use.
6. Fast, ubiquitous, unmetered, unthrottled Internet.
7. An ISP that doesn't care if you run a server.
While I strongly sympathize with anyone sitting at #6 or #7 who views a move to any previous step as a huge regression, I can't sympathize with denying people any kind of connectivity unless they can snap their fingers and manifest the infrastructure to enable #5. All of those previous steps served a purpose at the time.
Developing economies have an opportunity to learn from our mistakes as first mover, and leapfrog ahead to something more robust against all these threats we're facing today (centralization, stratification, eavesdropping, denial of service, walled gardens...).
BBSes were an artifact of the old phone infrastructure, so that's not a necessary phase, but otherwise the story would look roughly the same: Local communities gradually connect peer-to-peer and then interconnect. This time wirelessly, securely, without entrenched middlemen.
Now you could make the same argument that you made in your post, but I don't think the lightbulb company comes off looking so good.
Posting garbage about poor people's situations that is untrue only serves to hurt everybody. Please stop.
I don't accept this premise. This is a false dichotomy because these are not the only two options. There is a third, better option: to get access to the entire internet.
A company offering you that choice is using a classic game-theoretic bargaining approach: commit to only allowing a restricted set of possibilities, of which the other person's best option is the one you want to happen. This makes it sound like the company has no chioce in the matter: they are just presenting you with the options, and you are the one who has to choose between eliminating this poor Iraqi's internet or giving her partial access. In reality, the company has stacked the deck by presenting you with this particular pair of options.
I'm not saying it's completely illegitimate for a company to want to sponsor free partial internet for those who don't have it in some places of the world.
But I am saying it is opposite from the ideal we should be working towards in already-developed countries like the USA. Ideally, the company providing internet should not at all be vertically integrated with the company providing websites on it and should have no incentive to prioritize one over the other.