I don't think it IS different.... being 'understood and appreciated' is exactly what social status is.
Re:The Economics of Status (2006)
by paulsutter on Tuesday March 07, 2017 @12:50PM
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No, social status is a zero sum /ranking/ of individuals and inherently competitive.
And yes we're social creatures, and we all want to be understood and appreciated. But that's quite a different thing from pursuing social status.