A few resources about containerd:
https://blog.docker.com/2017/02/containerd-summit-recap-slid...
If you consider people to be reacting based on an expectation that you're quite possibly going to do the exact same thing, this thread makes significantly more sense - or at least it does to me.
Exactly what, if anything, can/should be done about this, I'm not sure. But I think that's probably what's going on.
In any case, in the end actions speak louder than words. If we consistently ship solid, open code that actually solves problem, and no frankenstein crippleware materializes... Then we will gradually earn the trust of more and more people.
FWIW, we took some of our inspiration from the original RHEL/Fedora fork by Red Hat in the early 2000s. And more recently from the Gitlab CE/EE product positioning.