You know a OS is in a bad spot, if it gathers followers, who attack criticizing experience reports and anecdotes. Who needs truth if one has beauty?
Windows job was to provide a easy, trap-free OS, one where you wouldn't spend weeks with a bomb-defusal kit, looking at the upgrades blowing up systems.
Well at least the victims of the landmine dont have to worry about shipjumping converts of the holy church of the foreboding fruit snapping at them for heresy.
If they are too slow in doing that, then they are doing it wrong sure. But Microsoft updates do brick computers, undo obscure enterprisy settings, or role out unevenly across your estate so people are on different versions. You want to see if that happens to someone else before you roll out.
This is even more true with windows based servers, where you'd probably want to switch in an alternative or do everything at 3am on Saturday morning.
But at the same time, for an OS company being trustworthy is part of their job.
EDIT: I should probably reference the single small command that stops the bugging notifications and upgrade. Open admin level command line:
wusa /uninstall /KB:3035583