I have to imagine Sony is over inflating their sales numbers somehow, because I don't know anyone with the Sony system, and I'm one of the organizers of our local VR meetup, so I would think that would get me in front of more VR consumers than average. In the past, I know Sony has counted console units that have left their warehouses as "sales", i.e. even the ones still sitting on retail shelves, having yet to be sold to a user.

The only Sony system I've even seen out in the wild was at one of those video game bars that had it set up in a motion room with the Wii U and DDR where all the games were not seated. It was down for almost 50% of the time and, at least on the TV that was mirroring the view, there was stuttering every 2 or 3 seconds that someone was playing. I never got a chance to use it myself, so it might be awesome, but my initial cursory experience with it was not positive. I also do not know anyone that owns it personally and I am largely involved in my local VR community.

The social screen on PS VR is untethered from the headset display, so it's not really reflective of the performance of the headset itself. Also bear in mind that the baseline PS4 can barely hit 90FPS normally when it isn't rendering very much--this is why a lot of the early PS VR games are so visually simple. I think the PS VR stuff will heat up when more PS4 Pros hit the market.

I don't know. They've been on intermittent backorder since launch and scalps selling them for $800 on ebay (MSRP is 400)

I don't doubt they're channel stuffing (who doesn't) But it's pretty well accepted that it's been a runaway success.

It's consumer grade tech, your VR club is a different PCMR audience.