Sorry, edited my post after I realized I said AirPods and not EarPods. I don't have a pair. I would imagine they will be the same. Which is my hope because the EarPods fit my ears perfectly... I have pretty big ears (not sure if that typically translates to ear holes), which caused more than a little fun poking back in school, but apparently they are a good size for Apple's design spec. Take that BILLY you little jerk!
A long long time ago, I loved the feel of the earphones. They came with one of the first gen if ipod.
Then at some point the design of the earphone changed and I had the same problem as you ever since:-( I was quite disappointed at the time
I've never been able to use the traditional wired Apple earbuds because my ear is too small and they start hurting after 5-10 mins of use.