No Spanking, No Time-Out, No Problems

Re:No Spanking, No Time-Out, No Problems by matt4077 on Sunday December 04, 2016 @02:49PM (#13101440)

It's literally not. There's a huge difference between "being a bitch" and "not actively reinforcing the bo.nd with your child."

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Re:No Spanking, No Time-Out, No Problems by SerLava on Sunday December 04, 2016 @03:03PM (#13101504)

The teenager is really just a petulant, kind of half-assed adult. The psychologist frames it the same way as the 4 year old, but knows it's really an entirely different ball game. The teenager actually has a functioning long-term memory, for instance.

Obviously the theoretical teenager and my comment are exaggerating it, but there's truth in there.

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Re:No Spanking, No Time-Out, No Problems by semi-extrinsic on Sunday December 04, 2016 @06:01PM (#13102244)

The 4 year old also has a functioning long-term memory. Our oldest (4 1/2 now) often recounts minuscule, random details of events 6-12 months ago that neither me nor my wife had mentioned since.

It's true that most adults have few memories from childhood, but that's something else entirely.

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Re:No Spanking, No Time-Out, No Problems by Elvie on Monday December 05, 2016 @04:39AM (#13104343)

My nearly 5 year old remembers events from last Christmas in great detail, so they have a better long term memory than many people credit them for

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Re:No Spanking, No Time-Out, No Problems by ryanmarsh on Monday December 05, 2016 @05:12AM (#13104474)

This is why I treat my kids as adults who just aren't quite ready for adulthood. You can't fool most kids. We're the dull ones, not them, they're just inexperienced.

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