You need very little kinetic energy to make a cyclist topple and fall. The fall itself can lead to injury and death, lying on a street in the midst of all the traffic is even more dangerous.
Any touching of car and cyclist is very, very dangerous. That's why I brought up the example of cyclists passing cars with practically no space between them. They feel it's safe, but it's incredibly dangerous.
Lying on a street - yes. Because cars might roll over you, cause of the kinetic energy.
Getting squished between cars - yes. Because of the huge mass of the car.
Banging your head against an opening car door - yes. This time it is because of your own kinetic energy that hits a small surface area which is immobile cause of the mass of the car.
So it is quite dangerous to get near to cars, yes. But almost always because of the huge mass of the cars, especially if they are moving. That was the point of ggp.
Many of these people where not going all that fast. https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/List_of_cyclists_with_a_cyclin...
A 1 ton car at 10 mph has 9 000 joules of kinetic energy, so about 30% more.
He dies – as you put correctly – because of all the cars around him. Of course kinetic energy is relevant there, but it doesn't matter to the argument, because the claim was that being touched by a car is much more dangerous than being touched by a cyclist. And that's wrong.
As soon as the cyclist falls he's in mortal danger.