I think a good percentage of people working their asses off and working 60 hours a week are people who ARE actually successful. I don't blame them for turning work into a hobby.
In my experience, smaller (non bigcorp) companies have to fight to survive and don't have these luxuries..
Just saying not everywhere in the US is as bad as people make it sound...
No, it is not. The guy is telling about a generic situation. And I can tell it goes the same way in Finland too.
Yours is an anecdote though. You know pretty well your case is not common.
I know a number of people here that have more flexibility in their jobs than the Sweden job as described. Did I say 'generically, US is better' or anything like that? No, because maybe it's not true. Maybe you two are right.
The American culture honestly seems totally crazy to me. There is a massive difference in how you view yourselves over there. If you dont succeed at making some kind of a career, you feel like losers? Please step out of the matrix a little bit guys. Life is not getting some position in a company so you can work even more. Its about finding happiness.