IR remote for devices around the house: https://www.stavros.io/posts/how-turn-your-raspberry-pi-infr...
RF remote for more devices: https://www.stavros.io/posts/how-remote-control-rf-devices-r...
Home server for controlling various things around the house (farther down)
ESP8266:
A rotary mobile phone: https://www.stavros.io/series/irotary/
A button that orders food when pressed (Amazon-dash-like): https://www.stavros.io/posts/emergency-food-button/
Sensor board for sensing things in all the rooms of the house: https://www.stavros.io/posts/building-cheap-home-sensorcontr...
The above ties in with the Raspberry Pi farther up.
A LED strip controller: https://www.stavros.io/posts/wifi-enabled-rgb-led-strip-cont...
A toy bus with an OLED screen that shows which bus is passing by next (no post yet).
A self-driving RC car (no post yet).
A perfume sprayer that sprays perfume with an API (no post ever).
Arduino:
Nothing, the ESP8266 is better.
And these are just random ideas I got, you can do way more if you have a specific need for them.
I'm just getting into electronics but have found the Pi indispensable for this purpose: without much effort, I now have Pi Zero running Homebridge with plugins and hardware to control an AC power outlet switch, ambient temperature and humidity sensors, three contact sensors, and another Raspberry Pi 3 also running Homebridge with a light sensor, fan speed controller (PWM) / tachometer, motion detector, and camera.
What's great about the Raspberry Pi is it is a complete computer system, so it can run the Homebridge stack (Node.js, mDNS, etc.) for bridging your custom home automation devices (via GPIO) to the rest of your IoT system (I wrote up my experiences here if anyone is interested: https://medium.com/@rxseger/home-automation-with-raspberry-p... Home automation with Raspberry Pi + Homebridge).
However, having a full OS is probably overkill for most home automation sensors/devices, I'm looking into getting an ESP8266 or other low-power wireless microcontroller next as I continue to build out my automation to other parts of the home. An ESP8266 may be better than e.g. a Pi Zero for many of these use cases, having built-in Wi-Fi support versus an add-on USB Wi-Fi adapter. I also want to put an MSP430 to work on home automation, but need to figure out the wireless story. Instead of a heavyweight Wi-Fi stack, probably a lightweight low-data rate protocol on an unlicensed sub-1 GHz or ISM band, bridging the slower RF connection to the rest of your Wi-Fi or Ethernet network (ala ZigBee/802.15.4 and the Philips Hue bridge).
The Wemos D1 Mini (~$5) looks really nice for an ESP8266 board. I went with a NodeMcu on Aliexpress (~$3), hopefully it works well once it arrives, but at these prices not much to lose, and you can buy many for multiple projects: a computer in every room?! Exciting times, more and more companies are developing expensive home automation products to build an ultimate "smart home", but with the explosion of inexpensive single-board computers/microcontrollers for electronics hobbyists there has never been a better time to get into DIY home automation.
(and WLAN spectrum is quite cramped here, and part of me wants to isolate everything into nice separate networks, just to be sure)
Perhaps you'll find this useful:
http://hackaday.com/2016/04/01/ethernet-controller-discovere...
I have yet to install the reed switch on the door so the thing is smart enough to actually open and close and not just emulate button pressses.
I don't trust this setup to control mains power (look up Sonoff devices for that), but the garage opener is 12 V so I feel ok about not setting things on fire with that.
Arduino et al: need to have buttons do more complicated things than buttons can actually do: slowly change light colors, actuate things, CNC, etc.
ESP8266: sensors and remote controls for switches and such. Anything Arduino does above, except the button is now on a network and not necessarily physical.
I have the same problem, but at the same time I have found some use cases. For example an Arduino to remember the height settings for my sitting/standing desk project. Or an ESP8266-based garage door opener on the cheap.
I do think that a lot of the not-Arduino hardware a la teensy is not really that relevant to me. I don't want to study hardware. I want to build shit, and in most cases a Wemos D1 Mini is actually what I need. But there are cases where things like that can be really nice. The MSP430 for example is a really low power chip.
Basically if you don't know what to do with the stuff, donate it to a local hackerspace. Or find a project idea, then dig into the box-o-stuff.