Re:How being alone may be the key to rest
by sotojuan on Sunday October 02, 2016 @10:53AM
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I think my strategy backfires if the book is really good. Personally my night reading is very casual, usually a light non fiction book that doesn't provoke much deep thought.
For me it's mostly about slowing down.
Re:How being alone may be the key to rest
by majewsky on Sunday October 02, 2016 @11:13AM
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I think it depends on the chapter length.
1. While I'm inside a chapter, I'll keep reading until the end of the chapter.
2. When I'm at the end of a chapter, I will stop if (and only if) I feel that I cannot invest the time to start the next chapter right now.
So short chapters are bad because I will just keep going ("oh come on, only two more pages") and long chapters are bad because I will not even start them. The sweet spot for me was two years ago when I read www.hpmor.com.
That said I recently went for over two months without reading in the evenings - when I resumed reading (a friend literally pushed a book on me and said it needed to be read within a fortnight) I became notably calmer and less stressed.
To have colleagues note that none of the workload had changed yet I was significantly more with it was startling, and the only change I could identify was the book.