That's master/slave, but to get master/master, all you need to do is start a slave on the original master and point it at the current master position on the original slave (which should be static since it isn't yet accepting any queries directly). These posts may be helpful:
https://www.digitalocean.com/community/tutorials/how-to-set-... http://plusbryan.com/mysql-replication-without-downtime
Once it's running, as long as you're not running autoincrement queries or other things that can conflict on both servers at the same time, without taking appropriate precautions, it should chug away without any intervention.
If something does go wrong, you can often figure it out by looking at the slave status, fixing the inconsistency manually, skipping the bad query, and then starting the slave. If not though, you can always just re-synchronize from scratch. Or even better, run your databases off of an LVM volume, then take regular snapshots. (IE snapshot, make a tarball of the snapshot of the mysql directory, then remove the snapshot.) That will give you a consistent backup, even with the server running. On an SSD, the temporary added latency probably won't be noticed, especially if done off-peak. Then if anything goes wrong, you can restore from the snapshot, and it should catch back up to the master from the snapshot's position automatically (as long as your expire_logs_days setting in my.cnf is longer than the duration since the snapshot was taken).
Hmm, may have to give it a try! Thanks.
Site B, insure any writes use even numbers for unique field.
This avoids conflict.
If I'm updating existing records, and the MySQL master at Site A gets updated, then goes down before Site B is updated.. I've got an inconsistent setup.
Been thinking about Master-Master MySQL replication recently as we have a system that's duplicated and taken offline each summer (to run a summer camp), and looking for a way to sync changes in it back to the main 'live' MySQL database.