That said, I think the main problem with that is to do it cross platform, which the article goes to paint to mention quite a bit. I imagine the whole point here is to be portable, and I'm not sure what mechanisms work best with that, and what platforms they are available on. I uncovered some unsettling info about Fcntl locking[1], but generally I just used flock when I had to care about it, but i don't think that exists on windows normally(?).
Another idea was, why not just exclusively open the file, write to it and then closed it again? Why even bother having the file open in several processes at the same time? I am not sure what the overhead would be, but I guess it would not be to terrible. And if you can afford to buffer say 1000 records you want to write, then you can simply cut down the overhead by a factor of 1000 by just doing that.
[1] https://msdn.microsoft.com/en-us/library/windows/desktop/aa3...
[2] https://msdn.microsoft.com/en-us/library/windows/desktop/aa3...
Regarding having a buffer of records and only locking / unlocking once per batch write, I've used this technique in a program that writes logs to CSV and it works perfectly. You obviously need to tune the buffer size based on the rate and size of new records! One advantage of this is that, depending on the data you're dealing with, you can pre-sort the data in the buffer and end up with mostly sorted (less interleaved) data in the final output. If you need sorted output, then this can dramatically reduce the time taken to sort the final file.