https://www.washingtonpost.com/business/economy/the-end-of-t...
You seem to have forgotten that France is one of the countries with the highest military spending in the world (not that it pleases me).
France 2.1% of GDP. The consensus number is more of less 3%.
edit: I was wrong, 2% is the right number.
http://money.cnn.com/2016/04/15/news/nato-spending-countries...
You are right, the German military is at best a target for the Russians to calibrate their weapons and to draw the US in.
Russia spends less than France and Italy combined in dollars. In % of GDP, China is at 1.9%. Just below France and the UK.
What is there to reconcile here? Sexual interest never got in the way of xenophobia. Never stopped slave owners from sexually assaulting their "property".
NATO commitments are a joke, when outside of Britan and few Eastern European countries, Germany, Netherlands, France are not spending to their commitments so why should Americans subsidize their mega-welfare states?
Here is a fact, Germany has about 330 or so battle ready tanks and most of them are made before 1980. That is some abysmal commitment to NATO.