Fair enough. I agree on both points.
But my point was not that one system is 'better' or 'worse' but that religious head-wear should not be seen as some inalienable right that we have to accommodate to remain a free society. Even if many young Iranian women may feel 'naked' without it, it only took the religious dictators there one generation to make them forget how it used to be.
Democracy is like technology, morally neutral yet capable of great good or terrible inhumanity.