Believing that everybody is out to get you is a sign of paranoia. Believing that people and organization act in their own self-interest is generally a pretty accurate model.
I think it's pretty obvious that we have the government on one side and corporations on the other.
We need to make sure that a healthy equilibrium stays in place between the two. Right now I just feel that corporations are winning.
It's also not unusual for organizations to collaborate on one aspect and compete on another. On one hand, Google is in fairly tight with the Obama administration, with the HealthCare.gov rescue & USDS being largely led by ex-Google and ex-Twitter engineers on temporary leave. On the other, all the tech companies banded together to encrypt everything when they found out the NSA was snooping on their wire links.
I used to believe as you did, dividing big entities up into "government" and "corporations", but then personal experience in a big corporation and a lot of friends in government showed me that this is not at all how the world operates. Ultimately it's a lot more chaotic, and the default state in most relationships is "frenemy".
OK now let's talk about the government. Remember when China PR put microphones in taxis for the Olympics? Do we aspire to become that?
Corporations do their monitoring purely for their own financial gain.
The government is like a parent watching a child to make sure that the child doesn't get hurt - The interests of the parent are aligned with those of the child. A corporation is more like a pedophile - The interests do not align.
I think it's great that you've lived in a bubble all your life.
But you should make a conscious decision whether to remain in that bubble, or find out the truth about the world around you.
Because the truth is an ugly thing these days.
#1. The government is monitoring us.
#2. Facebook, Google, Amazon, Apple and many other huge corporations are also monitoring us... And they are sharing our personal data with each other.
Why are so many news articles about issue #1 and so few are about issue #2. The government is a negligible threat compared to corporations. It seems like tech companies are manipulating the media to turn people against the government and divert attention away from themselves.