But at the end of the day, you don't want to just say "everything can be true if you stretch far enough", you want to say that things are true only when we've demonstrated some utility in saying that they're true. So we just defer the issue: if you want to say something is true, you always need to know what difference it makes.
Absolutely. It seems that fictionalism avoids both the "in some sense" qualifications and worrying about what difference it makes by asserting that statements out of context are simply false. While consistent, I'm similarly not convinced that its useful.
Put another way, the metaphysical status of cities is not a direct consequence or assumption of the metaphysics of mathematical entities.
In other words, I'm supposed to entertain that math is a fictional tale with fanciful characters called "numbers" that don't exist outside of the story, but the boundaries of so-called physical objects are so apparent that they shouldn't be questioned?
Most physical boundaries are arbitrary, part of the stories that we tell ourselves, and not meaningful in a deep sense. I'd like to know how mathematics, and numbers in particular, are different.
[As an aside: Is it possible to convincingly argue that "this is larger than that" without using numbers?]
Not sure I follow. It's not an axiom, but the conclusion of a bit of argument, so it's not accepted without discussion.
If you mean my statement, then yes, I'm going to assume that rocks are real (as almost everyone except maybe Idealists) do, but not assume mathematical objects are real, for the sake of the present debate.
But that said, if San Francisco does exist, it exists in space and time. It didn't exist until the past 500 years, though the land it inhabits existed before then. It's also between 1 and 13 thousand miles from the Easter coast of China. You can locate it, you can go to it, etc.
None of those things are true of the number 5 (http://plato.stanford.edu/entries/abstract-objects/).
It's perfectly open for someone to deny that either or both of numbers and San Francisco exists, but the considerations seem a little different.
If there are five of something in the universe, is that a referent for the number 5?
What is it that makes Sydney and San Francisco real objects with meaningful sizes while 8 and 5 are not real and do not have meaningful sizes? Sydney and San Francisco are defined by political and legal "stories" in the same way that 8 and 5 are defined in mathematical "stories". The theory only seems to be consistent if all out-of-context falsifiable statements are taken to be false.
This theory placates me, since it leaves the truth value of mathematical statements (in the context of the mathematical story) to mathematicians. However, it renders any conclusions meaningless to mathematics, even if it is meaningful for a philosophy dealing with human stories.