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Re:A Protocol for Dying by msamwald on Friday April 22, 2016 @06:58AM (#11548253)
It might be consoling to some, but it is hardly accurate.
Re:A Protocol for Dying by asimuvPR on Friday April 22, 2016 @07:10AM (#11548291)
How would you accurately explain death to a toddler? It is a good analogy that takes the toddler's feelings into account. Daddy ran out of Legos but he loves you. Quite beautiful actually.
Re:A Protocol for Dying by alsomaht on Friday April 22, 2016 @10:27AM (#11549435)
Accurately:

Our bodies undergo wear-and-tear, like the mailbox we had to fix last week. Only, in the case of our bodies, we don't yet have a way to fix or replace most of our parts. After a while, too many parts get worn down until they are no longer able to continue, and everything about us - the parts that allow us to think, the parts that allow us to feel - just stops.

Sadly, fixing our biology is harder than fixing mailboxes, and while we're learning more and more about how to do it every decade, we won't be able to fix everything for the foreseeable future.

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Too accurately:

So why aren't we trying harder to fix it? You see, son, society has been dealing with death for many thousands of years, and people have developed coping mechanisms to deal with its apparent inevitability. The majority of people simply don't think about it. Public figures have even rationalized death as a good thing, and boy have they said the darndest things. For example, I've recently read of someone comparing our bodies to legos in a fixed sandbox - as if people literally need to be disassembled before others can be born - and no one bats an eye! Another person pointed out that scientific progress would be slowed down without the older generation of scientists dying - sure, billions of non-scientists may die every few decades, but hey, science is a bit faster as a result!

The point is, society has created a culture of either ignoring or accepting death, and it shapes the very way we think. Sure, that culture might have been harmless back when we really had no chance of combating problems like old age, but now? The vast majority of researchers, of funders, don't even bother to think about what should be some of the most important problems of our generation. Until we have progressed to the point where it becomes blatantly obvious that the technology to combat old age exists, it is unlikely anyone will even notice it. In other words, we're all screwed and you were born a few hundred years too early.

Re:A Protocol for Dying by Neslit on Friday April 22, 2016 @10:34AM (#11549478)
Ha :/ Too real.

> we're all screwed and you were born a few hundred years too early.

It's not a great option, but cryonics seems way better than nothing. (Under the assumptions that the preservation is reasonably high-quality, the storage facilities stay operational, humanity doesn't destroy itself, and advanced medical technology gets developed; see waitbutwhy.com/2016/03/cryonics.html )

An example of someone who wanted to live a long time but was genuinely screwed and was born a couple hundred years too early:

The rapid Progress true Science now makes, occasions my regretting sometimes that I was born so soon. It is impossible to imagine the Height to which may be carried, in a thousand years, the Power of Man over Matter. We may perhaps learn to deprive large Masses of their Gravity, and give them absolute Levity, for the sake of easy Transport. Agriculture may diminish its Labor and double its Produce; all Diseases may by sure means be prevented or cured, not excepting even that of Old Age, and our Lives lengthened at pleasure even beyond the antediluvian Standard. O that moral Science were in as fair a way of Improvement, that Men would cease to be Wolves to one another, and that human Beings would at length learn what they now improperly call Humanity! -Benjamin Franklin

Re:A Protocol for Dying by anexprogrammer on Friday April 22, 2016 @07:42AM (#11548395)
downvotes? I'm not sure how this rates those. Accuracy isn't really helpful to a five year old who doesn't yet have all the concepts needed. The tooth fairy isn't accurate either. Accuracy will get you an endless cycle of "but why dad?"
Re:A Protocol for Dying by aninhumer on Friday April 22, 2016 @08:54AM (#11548709)
> Accuracy will get you an endless cycle of "but why dad?"

So keep answering until you can't, and then say "I don't know". Curiosity is something to be fostered, not shutdown with lies.

Re:A Protocol for Dying by anexprogrammer on Friday April 22, 2016 @09:15AM (#11548851)
Have you had an inconsolable five year old who lost a close relative or even pet? I prefer to use analogies and explanations they can understand and accept to help them understand the reality. It's not the same as presuming they have no concept of death. That's a very long way from shutting them down with lies, avoiding the topic, or "protecting" them from it. It's trying to be age-appropriate. I make no claims to be a perfect parent however.

When they're a little older and have more capacity to understand a fuller, more accurate, discussion is possible.

Re:A Protocol for Dying by asimuvPR on Friday April 22, 2016 @09:23AM (#11548914)
I lost a brother who has two girls. They were very young when it happened. It was a sudden death. Gone in less than a day. You never get an answer to the why. The Lego analogy works because it tells the child that life ends. It doesn't explain why. Just the fact. And that's ok. Why did my brother die? Everyday I ask myself that very same question and have yet come to an answer. His daughters have asked me why too. I never answer and hug them. Life is but a gift. It's not logical. But makes sense in a way. Worth living and worth dying for.

Only thing I can come up with is to wish everybody health and a long life.

Re:A Protocol for Dying by aninhumer on Friday April 22, 2016 @09:45AM (#11549081)
>It doesn't explain why.

The aspect of it that people are objecting to is that it does try to explain why. It says "Your father needs to go back in the box so we can make other people", which simply isn't true.

Re:A Protocol for Dying by asimuvPR on Friday April 22, 2016 @11:18AM (#11549812)
I do understand that and I'm not making a religious statement. Merely stating facts with Legos. The matter we are made up of are the Legos. We are the sum of the parts. When we die those parts go on to be part of other things. Now why that happens is that science has not yet caught up :)
Re:A Protocol for Dying by aninhumer on Friday April 22, 2016 @09:36AM (#11548998)
Obviously you try to explain, but what was objected to above is making excuses for death. Death sucks, and trying to pretend there's some good to balance that out is a lie.

That said, I'm not a parent, and I realise it's easier to be idealistic in theory.

Re:A Protocol for Dying by pbcoronel on Friday April 22, 2016 @10:38AM (#11549505)
But there _is_ some good to balance death out, it's called life. And the lego analogy captures this idea perfectly and quite appropriately for a 5-year-old.
Re:A Protocol for Dying by pbcoronel on Friday April 22, 2016 @11:28AM (#11549886)
Actually, all of life is contingent on death, not just the good in it. We sustain ourselves by consuming other dead beings, be it animals, plants, fungi, etc. They themselves lived thanks to the death of other beings and so on.

The lego analogy expresses the fact that we are not different from these other beings, and that we too must die so that life can continue. The death of an individual in this chain is always painful, but as part of the whole, it is just as it should be.

Re:A Protocol for Dying by mrexroad on Friday April 22, 2016 @12:33PM (#11550379)
> "It's the circle of life..." - King Mufasa
Re:A Protocol for Dying by aninhumer on Friday April 22, 2016 @11:15AM (#11549796)
That's not what I meant. The good in life is not inherently contingent on death.
Re:A Protocol for Dying by karmelapple on Friday April 22, 2016 @10:06AM (#11549278)
Louis CK has some insight on kids asking "Why?" http://youtu.be/BJlV49RDlLE
Re:A Protocol for Dying by EugeneOZ on Friday April 22, 2016 @09:00AM (#11548744)
Maybe they want to explain their kids all details of the illness, all details of dying and suffering - maybe they think it's acceptable for toddlers. Or maybe they are just too young/stupid/naive to understand it.
Re:A Protocol for Dying by TeMPOraL on Friday April 22, 2016 @08:27AM (#11548589)
That's called being a responsible parent.

It's either that, or your child's future partner will have to deal with them losing faith in their parents, after so many things they were told turned out to be bullshit said to shut them up.

Re:A Protocol for Dying by emodendroket on Friday April 22, 2016 @09:28AM (#11548949)
If you'd resent your parents for explaining death to you when you were five by an analogy without technical accuracy you probably have other issues.
Re:A Protocol for Dying by cname on Friday April 22, 2016 @12:17PM (#11550269)
Right. Issues that were caused by people distorting the truth instead of giving it to you straight.
Re:A Protocol for Dying by emodendroket on Friday April 22, 2016 @01:41PM (#11550930)
That's not what I meant but I think you know that.
Re:A Protocol for Dying by slavik81 on Friday April 22, 2016 @09:36AM (#11549003)
There would be over a hundred billion people today if nobody ever died, and that's only counting the humans. The practical reality of the world since the dawn of life has been that if you want to shake up the genetic Lego box and create new creatures, the old creatures have to die. Eventually.

The analogy is not perfect. To create new Lego creations you have to destroy the old ones first. But analogies are never perfect. They're just a starting point to get a rough understanding.

Re:A Protocol for Dying by Neslit on Friday April 22, 2016 @09:50AM (#11549129)
Does this seem like a desirable state of affairs? I think I'd rather not have anyone die involuntarily. If we put our minds to it, I bet we could figure out how to not have anyone die who didn't want to. There's no physical law that says you can't have billions or trillions of humans live awesome lives for a very long time (though maybe not literally forever).
Re:A Protocol for Dying by slavik81 on Friday April 22, 2016 @10:35AM (#11549483)
I think most people, including myself, would like to live forever. Whether achieving that is desirable or not is a larger discussion than I have time for, but I will say that if you take a broader perspective of the self, then death is not quite as sharp and painful as it first appears.

As Peter says, "[my children] will grow up with me in their DNA, on Youtube as endless conference talks, and in writing."

I think there are interesting ideas around seeing individuals as part of a greater whole. Not even in a spiritual sense, but just in a plain biological sense. It's rare to consider things that way, but it makes me feel better about my place in the world.

Re:A Protocol for Dying by swombat on Friday April 22, 2016 @02:07PM (#11551170)
> I will say that if you take a broader perspective of the self, then death is not quite as sharp and painful as it first appears.

A statement that I agree with, but which is of course meaningless to those who are filled with a total dread of death... Unfortunately this is one of those things that can't really be communicated. "You have to figure it out for yourself", etc...

Re:A Protocol for Dying by Neslit on Friday April 22, 2016 @02:20PM (#11551326)
>filled with a total dread of death

I'm not sure I've successfully communicated my feeling about this. It's less like a total dread of death and more like a total dread of losing life, if that makes any sense.

Do you have any close loved ones---a younger brother, a daughter, a close friend? Anyone for whom you might consider sacrificing yourself; anyone who you believe to be a shining light unto the world. Say that person is eaten by cancer. Once they are dead, they feel no pain; this is clear to me, and is not central in my judgement.

What is central is the lost blossoming of a mind. A rich internal experience, a reflective world with joy, dreams, and curiosity, is not a thing that should be destroyed. A mind that wishes to continue seeing the world and its people, and other minds wishing that mind to continue shining its light, annihilated---don't look away from the pain! If you look away from the pain, you lose your already slim opportunity to fight back.

Re:A Protocol for Dying by lintiness on Friday April 22, 2016 @09:57AM (#11549197)
what? accidents kill people and all living things all the time.
Re:A Protocol for Dying by saalweachter on Friday April 22, 2016 @10:20AM (#11549380)
Something else to fix!

The human body has many enviable traits over a machine: self repair, remarkable efficiency, etc etc.

But there's one really awesome aspect of machines we should get to work on: a machine, if broken, will sit indefinitely until repaired.

Imagine! You are rent limb from limb in a horrific accident, your body ... stops. A good Samaritan happens upon it later, stitches it back together, puts in some fresh blood, gives it a bit of a kick-start, and away you go!

Screw cryonics: I want to keep indefinitely at room temperature, with no special (post-mortem) treatment.

Re:A Protocol for Dying by Neslit on Friday April 22, 2016 @10:04AM (#11549260)
Well, yeah :P This is a strong argument for trying to prevent fatal accidents!
Re:A Protocol for Dying by mariodiana on Friday April 22, 2016 @02:02PM (#11551118)
I'm not going to remember the exact age, but the actuaries had a look at this question. Even if all medical conditions were treatable and no one ever died from disease, the average age of death due to accident would be somewhere around 400 years.
Re:A Protocol for Dying by Angostura on Friday April 22, 2016 @07:43AM (#11548397)
In what way is it inaccurate? It seems a fairly decent summary of the Carbon cycle.
Re:A Protocol for Dying by TeMPOraL on Friday April 22, 2016 @08:18AM (#11548538)
The inaccuracy is that in reality, the box of Legos is huge and nowhere near running out of bricks. If suddenly all humans on Earth stopped dying, the carbon cycle wouldn't even notice it for centuries or more (the things we'd be doing to control overpopulation are another topic though).
Re:A Protocol for Dying by coldpie on Friday April 22, 2016 @08:35AM (#11548629)
Why are you assuming the analogy is to physical resources instead of "population slots," for lack of a better term? The old have to die for the young to move forward, which is one thing that gives me pause about immortality research.
Re:A Protocol for Dying by TeMPOraL on Friday April 22, 2016 @08:42AM (#11548649)
Because the analogy is about Lego box and making new houses, as opposed to e.g. fitting new houses on a finite Lego base plate[0].

I don't buy the "population slots". 100 years ago, the "population slots" were limited to at most 2 billion, back before Harber-Bosch[1]. There's a lot of space to use - we can live under the sea, we'll finally have an economic reason for that Mars colony. And we can stop making children so much too. Those things are actually easier than beating death, so - with added incentive to actually making them happen - you can expect them coming before people actually get immortal.

[0] - http://www.amazon.com/LEGO-X-Large-Gray-Baseplate-628/dp/B00...

[1] - https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Haber_process

Re:A Protocol for Dying by Practicality on Friday April 22, 2016 @09:41AM (#11549047)
"The old have to die for the young to move forward" - This seems like a baseless assumption. If immortality research succeeds, surely we can also fix the problem of older people being stubborn.

A lot of the stubborness comes from facing death. When you think in terms of forever, it helps you to think a lot bigger than petty personal politics.

Or, at least, it should.

Re:A Protocol for Dying by talles on Friday April 22, 2016 @09:10AM (#11548810)
Here we are discussing carbon cycle for a explanation of death to a five year old.
Re:A Protocol for Dying by azazqadir on Friday April 22, 2016 @07:54AM (#11548443)
The point is, it doesn't have to be accurate. It just have to make sense to a child.
Re:A Protocol for Dying by Neslit on Friday April 22, 2016 @08:40AM (#11548642)
To put it bluntly, I can think of a number of other cases where

(1) people say things to children because it is more pleasant or convenient, not because it is true, and

(2) these misleading statements have negative effects later.

In this case, it seems potentially worthwhile to keep in view that death is actually not a good thing, and that it would better if there weren't death, and that we want to keep an eye out for opportunities to prevent death. "You do not make peace with darkness!"

Re:A Protocol for Dying by TeMPOraL on Friday April 22, 2016 @08:48AM (#11548680)
I can not understand this approach to parenting. I had the luck of my parents never lying to me to shut me up. Even the "hard topics" of sex were handled properly even before I started asking about it myself.

> (2) these misleading statements have negative effects later.

Yes. And I had to fix that damage in people too. You know, sharing an interesting tidbit of information with a person close to me only for her to suddenly realize it was another thing her father mislead her about. Lying to children is like placing relationship landmines - your kids will step on them many years later and it will damage your relationship with them.

Re:A Protocol for Dying by emodendroket on Friday April 22, 2016 @09:29AM (#11548962)
It seems like if every person who has ever lived were still alive today we'd had some issues.
Re:A Protocol for Dying by Neslit on Friday April 22, 2016 @09:34AM (#11548992)
Do you mean because of limited resources like food and space? Sure, but (1) these look like difficult but quite solvable problems (we are engineers, after all) and (2) the alternative is having every person who has ever lived also be dead, which sounds bad to me.

There might be more clever options, like cryopreserve everyone who dies; this does not consume many resources (the only recurring cost is liquid nitrogen, which is pretty cheap). Then we can wait to revive everyone until we have the medicine and the resources to support everyone, avoiding overpopulation.

Re:A Protocol for Dying by emodendroket on Friday April 22, 2016 @09:49AM (#11549127)
Well, yes. According to a quick search something like 108 billion people have ever lived (compared to 7 billion who walk the Earth today). That seems like a population that would be pretty hard to keep going without having a few extra Earths.

Besides that, it is immaterial. We are all going to die someday and there is nothing we can do about it. The people seeing cryogenics are largely snake-oil salesmen. I don't believe anybody will ever find immortality (at least not in this life).

Re:A Protocol for Dying by Neslit on Friday April 22, 2016 @10:01AM (#11549232)
>That seems like a population that would be pretty hard to keep going without having a few extra Earths.

Do you think this problem is merely very difficult, or literally impossible to solve (e.g. because of some physical law)? I think that if a bunch of really smart humans tried really hard to solve this problem, and you predicted very very confidently that they would fail, then I would be pretty skeptical of your confidence. Just as an example, you suggest getting some more Earths. Sounds like one solid approach; expand humanity to other planets!

>We are all going to die someday and there is nothing we can do about it. [...] I don't believe anybody will ever find immortality (at least not in this life).

This might literally true, in the sense that we probably can't survive the heat death of the universe in however many bazillions of years. But do you think it is implausible that advanced medical technology could e.g. keep us alive, healthy, and sane for, say, thousands of years? This sounds both plausible and quite desirable to me, and I'm confused by your statements---for instance, I can't tell whether you are making a factual claim or an aesthetic claim.

>The people seeing cryogenics are largely snake-oil salesmen.

Eh? They seem pretty sincere; the people who run these organizations (Cryonics Institute, Alcor) are generally themselves signed up for cryonics, and speak passionately about life extension as a desirable goal. Cryonics is not exactly a get-rich-quick scheme.

Re:A Protocol for Dying by emodendroket on Friday April 22, 2016 @10:08AM (#11549295)
Yes, I think it is extremely unlikely people will figure out thousand-year lifespans. I suppose perhaps we could somehow colonize other planets but I don't see any progress or even interest in progress there right now. As for cryogenics, check this out: http://thebaffler.com/salvos/everybody-freeze-pein
Re:A Protocol for Dying by Neslit on Friday April 22, 2016 @10:17AM (#11549358)
>Yes, I think it is extremely unlikely people will figure out thousand-year lifespans.

Why? Do you think this would withstand a thousand years of human ingenuity? I'm confused where you're getting this very confident prediction.

It also still seems to me that long lifespans are extremely desirable, albeit difficult to obtain, and I'm not sure whether you agree. This is relevant because if we want to decide e.g. where to put research effort, it's useful to know what we want.

The article you linked is kind of long, and looks like it mainly consists of sneering at various people; could you point to the part that's relevant? All I saw was some stuff about Alcor messing up a preservation, which is pretty unfortunate, but not really strong evidence that they have bad motivations.

Re:A Protocol for Dying by emodendroket on Friday April 22, 2016 @12:07PM (#11550196)
I can't know what anyone's motivations are, but I can feel pretty confident that they are selling false hope based on bogus science.
Re:A Protocol for Dying by Neslit on Friday April 22, 2016 @02:10PM (#11551196)
This is genuinely not obvious to me. What convinced you of this? Or, what do you think the world would look like if there were people who actually had a strong, reasonable, non-insane suspicion that they could do the things that cryonics people claim to be able to? To me, it looks like we are living in that world. Have you e.g. looked through the information, studies, and arguments on the Alcor website?
Re:A Protocol for Dying by emodendroket on Friday April 22, 2016 @03:09PM (#11551801)
Well, you don't want to read the article I linked. Why would I want to read a bunch of studies published by someone with an obvious vested interest in convincing me cryogenics is not nonsense?
Re:A Protocol for Dying by spyder on Friday April 22, 2016 @01:27PM (#11550817)
If they were still healthy and capable of work, they could help to solve those issues.
Re:A Protocol for Dying by anonymous779 on Friday April 22, 2016 @10:32AM (#11549472)
If you gave modern-age people a choice: to live a short life or live a long life while limiting their rate of childbirth (or ceasing reproduction altogether), I think many would choose the former. Having a choice is always better than having none.

Also note that your current (probably?) western lifestyle puts several times more load on the environment than mine 3rd world-like one. It is the wasteful lifestyle choices made by living people that are really a problem, not the quantity of people in itself.

Re:A Protocol for Dying by emodendroket on Friday April 22, 2016 @12:06PM (#11550180)
Well, yes, but even if everyone lived a third-world lifestyle I don't think we could realistically support 108 billion people today.
Re:A Protocol for Dying by anonymous779 on Friday April 22, 2016 @12:27PM (#11550330)
We don't have to, these (108-7) billions of people will (sadly) never ever come back. We have just 7.3 bln people and a planet with more than enough resources to sustain them and then some more (I could give some practical computations regarding the limits to growth, but I won't waste our time doing that here). So your whole argument about all people that have ever lived is basically a strawman.
Re:A Protocol for Dying by emodendroket on Friday April 22, 2016 @01:34PM (#11550869)
Well, how long do we expect the post-death utopia to last?
Re:A Protocol for Dying by cr1895 on Friday April 22, 2016 @10:42AM (#11549532)
I really don't think you can state as an absolute truth that death is bad and we would be better off if no one died. That may be your view, but this is a massively complex philosophical question for which I get the impression you have too hastily answered.
Re:A Protocol for Dying by Neslit on Friday April 22, 2016 @10:51AM (#11549606)
>we would be better off if no one died

(Clarification: I think we'd obviously be better off if no one involuntarily died.)

I don't think I've been hasty in my thinking. What is the most central concern that you have about life as a good thing?

There are deep unsolved problems around long life. E.g., how do you grow as a mind that has existed for 4,000 years? A normal human mind would probably not be able to handle this, so we'd need some way to expand without losing the parts of ourselves that we value. Similarly, I don't know how to grow as a community of huge, ancient minds.

But, as the saying goes, those are very difficult problems, and I intend to work on solving them for as many centuries as it takes! Of course I can't literally claim to possess an absolute truth, but I think there is a very strong argument---or rather, I think most people would simply agree if they thought longer and more sanely about the question---that life can be awesome given some work, and it is precious, and we don't want to just give up on our vast adventure because, like, medicine is hard to figure out, or cryonics seems like something weird people do, or whatever.

Re:A Protocol for Dying by cr1895 on Friday April 22, 2016 @11:49AM (#11550046)
I'm struggling to think of how to reply. This topic is both hard if not impossible to grapple and fascinating to think about. I keep going off into mental tangents about our place (and insignifigance) in the incomprehensibly huge cosmos and how you can so easily say that we humans, who have been dieing along with every other living thing for all of our collective existence, that somehow we should strive to eradicate death and live for thousands of years, much less eternity.

I don't know if hasty was the right word; I don't mean to just dismiss what you're saying. Clearly you've considered this at length.

I cannot easily accept that perpetual life is a good thing and death is something which should be avoided (obviously, in a grander sense). I don't have a concern about life as a good thing in the same way I don't have a concern about death being a bad thing. Life and death are complementary. I can't fathom anything else.

Re:A Protocol for Dying by Neslit on Friday April 22, 2016 @02:37PM (#11551494)
>Life and death are complementary

Hm, I hear people say this a lot, but I genuinely can't empathize with where they are coming from. This is a blank spot in my map. Could you say more about the intuition behind this statement, and why this makes death seems desirable or less bad?

To illustrate how I emotionally parse the statement "Life and death are complementary", I want to make a possibly distressing analogy, so apologies in advance, and:

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That statement reads to me like:

"Being raped and not being raped are complementary. Members of higher animal species rape each other in the natural course of life, and humans have committed rape throughout history. Rape is a part of nature, so it is foolish to think that we humans could or should eliminate rape forever."

This is an obviously abhorrent position, and I genuinely don't see much of a difference talking about death instead. Clearly horrible thing is clearly horrible.

Again, I am absolutely not trying to imply you are evil, or thinking inside my head that you are evil, or anything remotely like that; I am just trying to convey how I kneejerk-emotionally react to your statement about life and death, in case it helps you say things to me that will cause me to understand where you are coming from.

Re:A Protocol for Dying by cr1895 on Friday April 22, 2016 @03:18PM (#11551869)
Your analogy fails because death is not something which is necessarily a conscious action taken by one against another. If we were discussing why murder was good and complementary to life then it is more applicable, but we're not.

Your inability to parse why I see life and death existing in a sort of balance is similar to my inability to have the same clarity that you do that death is inherently bad and should be eliminated. It's certainly something I'm going to think about.

Re:A Protocol for Dying by rangibaby on Friday April 22, 2016 @09:36AM (#11549011)
Death is just another part of life. It's going to get you eventually.

https://en.m.wikipedia.org/wiki/Memento_mori

Re:A Protocol for Dying by Neslit on Friday April 22, 2016 @09:45AM (#11549082)
Personally, I really like living, mainly because there's a lot of awesome stuff to do and see and build, stories to tell, people to be with, etc. The logical next step is that I don't want to die, at least any time soon or involuntarily. Avoiding death may be difficult, but it seems rather sad to just give up; and anyway, say what you will about humans, but we are pretty goddamn clever occasionally.

So it seems quite worth it to fight death. I don't know if avoiding involuntary death should seem so implausible---humans are machines that can be fixed when they start breaking; that's how ordinary medicine works! I think it would actually be surprising if we could extend lifespans from 30 years all the way up to 100+ years, but couldn't possibly go much further, even given massive future advances in our understanding of biology, neurology, and technology.

Re:A Protocol for Dying by shopkins on Friday April 22, 2016 @02:01PM (#11551105)
Except we're not machines. "You're the same decaying organic matter as everything else," as Tyler Durden would say.

Some might say the next logical step isn't to wish to live forever, but to die, and hope your genes and ideas live on. We're not the eternal ones in this universe, no matter how big our capacity to wish for that.

Re:A Protocol for Dying by Neslit on Friday April 22, 2016 @02:43PM (#11551548)
>Except we're not machines.

I only mean that we're machines enough so that medical techniques work. We are made of parts that break and can be fixed. This is on extremely solid empirical footing.

>Some might say the next logical step isn't to wish to live forever, but to die, and hope your genes and ideas live on. We're not the eternal ones in this universe, no matter how big our capacity to wish for that.

Do you say that? I wish to live a very long time, and I wish the same for my loved ones and anyone who wants. I would keep wishing this even if it were an impossible wish. Also, it happens to probably not be impossible.

Re:A Protocol for Dying by aninhumer on Friday April 22, 2016 @09:54AM (#11549160)
Death is not a part of life, it is its destruction.

That it is currently inevitable does not mean it doesn't suck, or that we shouldn't try to change that.

Re:A Protocol for Dying by alanwatts on Friday April 22, 2016 @10:35AM (#11549481)
>Death is not a part of life, it is its destruction.

Life and death are part of the same simultaneous process. For a living thing to grow, it must die at the same time. Death is life's change agent.

"Controlled death of cells is as much a part of embryonal development as is cell proliferation and differentiation."

http://www.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/pubmed/8801138

Re:A Protocol for Dying by Neslit on Friday April 22, 2016 @10:39AM (#11549509)
But, do you agree that the part where the whole human mind (not just some cells) has to die---a soul annihilated permanently---is not really a good thing, even if it happens to be the state we find nature in?
Re:A Protocol for Dying by alanwatts on Friday April 22, 2016 @11:24AM (#11549854)
Not necessarily. The "whole human mind" and the "soul" are very metaphysical concepts so it's tough to say.

In my estimation, the "whole human mind" or "soul" of a person is not annihilated when someone dies. Our minds are an amorphous network constantly in intercourse with and dependent upon eachother.

When a loved one dies, all of the love they gave and words they said exist in some form or another within us, within our hearts and minds which we then pass on to others in turn.

Picture a field full of one type of flowers. If that one type of flowers grows old but never dies, soon enough there is no room for newer or better flowers to grow and evolve.

So as old minds pass away, new minds are born which draw upon the old minds' knowledge but also build upon that knowledge with newer and better ideas.

Alan Watts - Acceptance of Death

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=qK1BJkBJdtY

Re:A Protocol for Dying by Neslit on Friday April 22, 2016 @02:57PM (#11551707)
“I don't want to achieve immortality through my work; I want to achieve immortality through not dying. I don't want to live on in the hearts of my countrymen; I want to live on in my apartment.” --Woody Allen

Some small parts of a person can be transmitted to the outside world, but this leaves out the vast, rich internal world each mind carries with it. If I picture a loved one dying, I feel pretty concerned with the part where they don't keep being alive, keep pursuing their goals and having rich experiences and exploring and loving and being loved and creating and etc. How does this compare with your thoughts?

This may be painful to think about in detail. But I think it is actually important to think about anyway, because there are actual important decisions we have to make (whether to do research in to life extension, whether to sign up for cryonics, etc.), and we seem to be making the wrong decisions when we don't have everything in view; including the most painful parts, which happen to be the most important!

I'm also pretty confused why people bring up supposed benefits of society; to be frank, it sounds to me like people are suggesting "we should kill (let die) all the old and sick people to free up floor space" or "we should kill (let die) all the old and sick people so we don't have to spend any time dealing with their backwards ideas".

Re:A Protocol for Dying by aninhumer on Friday April 22, 2016 @12:22PM (#11550297)
>When a loved one dies, all of the love they gave and words they said exist in some form or another within us

Yes, but all of that would still exist if they didn't die, so it's irrelevant.

>Acceptance of Death

There's a difference between coming to terms with the likelihood of ones death, and thinking it's a good thing.

Death is a horrible thing that we should seek to prevent if at all possible.

Re:A Protocol for Dying by stephencanon on Friday April 22, 2016 @12:47PM (#11550489)
It's absolutely a good thing. We need some of our cells to die as our tissues develop, society needs people to die in order to develop. A society without death would be a stagnant hell.
Re:A Protocol for Dying by aninhumer on Friday April 22, 2016 @12:56PM (#11550574)
Would it? Perhaps we wouldn't be so cagey around racist grandparents (or their equivalent) if they weren't going to die soon.

I think it's an incredibly pessimistic view of humanity to suggest social change can only come about through death.

Moreover, I think this argument tends to come solely from people trying to excuse death, rather than any kind of reasonable analysis.

Re:A Protocol for Dying by stephencanon on Friday April 22, 2016 @08:07PM (#11553418)
The problem is that in a world without aging and natural death, your racist great-great-grandparents have (effectively) all of the resources and power, and therefore no reason to listen to you at all.

Yes, this is a pessimistic viewpoint, but I think it's also a realistic one.

Re:A Protocol for Dying by aninhumer on Friday April 22, 2016 @11:18AM (#11549819)
But we're not talking about cell death. We're talking about the death of sentient entities.
Re:A Protocol for Dying by laotzu on Friday April 22, 2016 @11:37AM (#11549952)
Define sentient entities
Re:A Protocol for Dying by aninhumer on Friday April 22, 2016 @12:36PM (#11550401)
Do you think there's a point to be made in the detail of the distinction?

My point is that death sucks, and when I say that, I'm talking about children crying because they can't see granny any more. Talking about cell death is a distraction.

Re:A Protocol for Dying by alanwatts on Friday April 22, 2016 @02:43PM (#11551541)
Those crying children couldn't exist if their grandparents and their grandparents down the line never died. There wouldn't be enough food or resources to sustain indefinite existence for everyone who wants it.

https://en.m.wikipedia.org/wiki/Ecophagy

Re:A Protocol for Dying by aninhumer on Friday April 22, 2016 @02:55PM (#11551684)
That just means food production is a problem we need to solve in order to prevent people dying. It doesn't mean the death itself is a good thing.

And if food consumption truly became limiting, would you prefer a society that kills people at a certain age, or one that limits the birth rate?

Re:A Protocol for Dying by alanwatts on Friday April 22, 2016 @03:22PM (#11551909)
>would you prefer a society that kills people at a certain age, or one that limits the birth rate?

Neither. I'd prefer one smart enough to understand the demographic economic paradox and successfully raise the standard of living so that the problem of overpopulation solves itself naturally.

https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Income_and_fertility

Re:A Protocol for Dying by aninhumer on Friday April 22, 2016 @03:38PM (#11552044)
Well yes, obviously you'd try to reduce the birth rate nicely first, and maybe that's a complete solution (to a problem you suggested), but that doesn't answer the question.

I'm asking what you do if population growth starts to outpace food production despite your best efforts? Do you start killing old people, or do you stop letting people have babies?

Re:A Protocol for Dying by wging on Friday April 22, 2016 @10:50AM (#11549594)
It's an explanation of conservation of mass. Maybe not the only reason we die, but if no one ever did die, we'd eventually run into problems, er, assembling the next generation. In fact all you need to assume in order to run up against these problems is that population growth continues.
Re:A Protocol for Dying by sp332 on Friday April 22, 2016 @10:55AM (#11549639)
The earth's population has skyrocketed recently. Global poverty is down over the same time. There might be such a limit somewhere, but we're not close enough to it that we have to maintain an equilibrium in births and deaths!
Re:A Protocol for Dying by Neslit on Friday April 22, 2016 @10:55AM (#11549636)
Uh, there's a whole lot of mass in the universe; this isn't really a limiting factor, and won't be for quite a long time.