Not impossible. Hard. Worth it IMO.
I'm now married after having lived that way for a number of years and it still has benefits. Not only for my SO.
As mentioned above, breaking into that state was hard, I worked for months without luck so I totally can relate to the "impossible" claim.
I relate the breakthrough to my being "born again" experience and I think I would rather die happily on the spot instead of going back.
Edit: posted from sockpuppet account because while I happily might share personal stuff I try to separate it from work stuff.
Nope. A fleeting image or thought is lust in your mind, not in your heart.
Incidentally....
Religion is what the unconverted soul does in order to do right by God
Enlightenment is achieved by realizing one does not need God to do right.
Too late.
(Also: If the standard is an impossible one, that is a problem with the standard.)
What's a chap to do in the face of the ever present human nature and its propensity to play God with anything and everything it can get away with? -NOTHING- seems like a really tall standard. Have you tried to do -NOTHING- lately in the face of whatever went on in your mind which was absolutely telling you to act?
Try that. And when you fail - and you will... MAYBE..and I say MAYBE then you might get a glimpse of how powerless we are as humans as well as our will to execute on what we know is right, but constantly fail to do.
Maybe this makes sense to you.. maybe it doesn't. My only advice is - keep being whomever you are... and you may, if you're humble enough, experience this conversion, past which there's no turning back.
The only two elements required to get to it is humility and faith..... in the end you will see Who God is, regardless.
I'll stop here before I start to proselytize or make even less sense.