Re:Online Dating and the Death of the 'Mixed-Attractiveness'...
by jensen123 on Monday April 11, 2016 @06:47AM
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I've seen several dating sites that give you the option to only show profiles with a picture. However, I've never seen a dating site that gives you the option of only showing profiles that contain more than say 2 sentences. I think that would have been far more useful.
Re:Online Dating and the Death of the 'Mixed-Attractiveness'...
by noir_lord on Monday April 11, 2016 @07:09AM
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Absolutely, I actually don't send messages to anyone who hasn't filled in their profile, a nice looking picture tells me nothing about them as a person.
Re:Online Dating and the Death of the 'Mixed-Attractiveness'...
by Unklejoe on Monday April 11, 2016 @08:56AM
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A nice looking picture with no profile text tells me a lot.
It tells me that the profile is either fake or that the person is only there to boost their own ego by receiving messages.
Either way, it tells me that there's no point of sending them a message!
Re:Online Dating and the Death of the 'Mixed-Attractiveness'...
by greggman on Monday April 11, 2016 @09:09AM
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There's a good episode from the Start Up podcast about a company that tried to not have pictures.
I'm pretty sure it was this episode https://gimletmedia.com/episode/profiled-season-2-6/
We had long conversations and I had no idea what she looked like for the first month or so, she commented that I hadn't asked for a picture which men normally do straight away, my response was "I enjoy talking to you".
She eventually sent a picture when we arrange to go on a date last week, turns out she is absolutely stunning (not I find her attractive, I mean objectively stunning) and the reason she took her picture off was all the "Hey baby, want sum fuk?" messages she was getting.
Date went well and we are going out again soon, I'm not handsome, I'm pretty average looking except for been in decent physical shape (swimming, cycling and dropping 60lbs will do that), frankly if I'd known what she looks like first I probably wouldn't have sent her a message in the first place figuring I didn't have a chance.
The world is a strange place sometimes.