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Re:Tantrums as Status Symbols (2005) by tristor on Monday April 04, 2016 @09:32PM (#11427152)
Which is why people like myself who are honest and oblivious to social signals upset so many managers/etc. We'll honestly and fervently correct your misconceptions without so much as an eye blink. This confers its own sort of status with the rest of the rank-and-file, but doesn't win you any favors come review time. It does make the manager look like an idiot for trying to force you to do something obviously stupid though, which is its own sort of bonus.
Re:Tantrums as Status Symbols (2005) by techdragon on Tuesday April 05, 2016 @03:16AM (#11428483)
Commendable and worth remembering the next time it happens to you. But do remember... Sadly this can backfire. Repeatedly doing this can get you fired, suspended, grounded, or suffering whatever other punitive action the "superior" is capable of metering out.
Re:Tantrums as Status Symbols (2005) by tristor on Tuesday April 05, 2016 @12:14PM (#11431630)
I agree 100%. It has backfired on me several times in life, but it has also been a good thing in my career in organizations which respect it. I find the response to honesty is most measured by the quality of the leaders in your organization. Good leaders crave honest feedback, because its impossible to correctly judge your leadership decisions based on the advice of sycophants.

As an example, in one big company I worked at, I was very far down the totem-pole, but in a senior technical role. I had, however, firmly established my reputation for honesty (sometimes brutal honesty) and integrity. While some of the managers a few steps above me did not care for me because of this, my direct supervisor respected it, and I was meeting for lunch weekly with the SVP of our business unit to answer any questions he had about the internals of the product and give him "straight answers" about things he had asked about. Sure, in some ways, I was probably backstabbing the guys above me, but only because they were lying to the SVP constantly and that impacted his ability to make good decisions.

Honesty is pretty much always the best policy, no matter who asks. It won't always win you favors, but at least no matter the outcome you can be assured of your own personal integrity. Being dishonest when it seems advantageous may prevent some heartache, but it won't prevent all heartache, and you'll end up seeing yourself as a bad person in the end and have a troubled conscience (unless of course you're a psychopath).

Re:Tantrums as Status Symbols (2005) by throweway on Tuesday April 05, 2016 @05:58AM (#11429188)
What if it is unintended e.g. autism spectrum?
Re:Tantrums as Status Symbols (2005) by qznc on Tuesday April 05, 2016 @06:38AM (#11429323)
Then you are probably under special protection by law. For your the pointy-haired boss it means he has to use more subtle methods, e.g. a performance review, to get you out of the door.
Re:Tantrums as Status Symbols (2005) by chippy on Tuesday April 05, 2016 @07:33AM (#11429551)
This is why there middle managers, project leads, senior developers over those employees. Their job is to frame the misconceptions into something which appears more acceptable to employees who wouldn't toe the line if they were being directly managed.