I'm also not a big fan of overly eager syntax checking because I tend to compose abstractions on the fly, leaving a statement incomplete while I flesh out a dependency, or vice versa. Syntax aware indenting usually breaks badly in this situation - I generally prefer dumb indenting, with an opt-in block or file format option for where I want to fix code over a large area. I've had big fights with Emacs over this; it almost always does the wrong thing by default, whether it's indent location, continuation indent, mixing tabs and spaces in the indent, etc. About half my .emacs is replacement indentation functionality and configuration per mode.
I also don't like auto-completing parentheses, because it puts text ahead of the cursor on the current line. That's a PITA because the editor almost invariably doesn't know when I want to complete the expression or how. Eclipse is the worst at this (it's actually not possible to turn off in a sane way). It interprets RET as completing the expression when I want a line break inside the parens, and I'm constantly having to go back and forth to work around its mistakes.
Funny, because I dislike having syntax errors highlighted for the exact same reason. If I'm typing new code, I like to keep my thoughts on the reasoning behind what I'm typing, and leave it until later to "clean up" the code and get it syntactically correct. Having big red highlights around code that I haven't finished writing yet is a huge distraction... the editor seems to be beckoning to me: "Stop typing and close that paren! Why are you still typing! It's not corrreeeeect yet!!!". And usually it's enough distraction to cut off a good train of thought.
It gets worse when the editor starts complaining about full compilation errors, like calling functions I haven't written yet. When I'm in a more "creative" part of my coding (like when I'm doing lots of brand new functionality), there's a certain ordering of what I write first and what I fill in later, and having an IDE yell at me the whole time is just tiresome.
> What do I miss? Syntax highlighting hinting that I made a dumb typo (importance is directly proportional to compile time or speed of running syntastic).
This is also a reason that I don't like using editor features that automatically close parenthesis or quotes when you type the opening pair. That may make the expression syntactically correct, but semantically incomplete and the burden will be on me to notice, since syntax highlighting won't help me then.