Also, if you don't mind me asking, how does it not being a property graph affect modelling your data and queries? At a glance it seems that queries would get significantly more complex if you wish to take several properties of a vertex into account.
To insert in the 'embedded' mode you can do: https://github.com/google/cayley/wiki/Cayley-Go-API-(as-a-Li....
Join #cayley on freenode and https://groups.google.com/forum/#!forum/cayley-users and get help from our community.
https://github.com/GovernmentCommunicationsHeadquarters/Gaff...
From what I've seen, our use has a lot in common with Seed-DB, only in a different economic sector/activity.
Also, I know it's being used by some companies. you can ask directly the people who uses it on IRC - #cayley (freenode).
https://github.com/google/cayley