But, to expand this, you explain that men are generally conditioned to be fearless, if they are not, they are labelled girly, or something similar right?

So conversely women are conditioned to be compliant/delicate right? Women are not allowed to fight, confront or be violent. After all women fighting is a fetish right?

Now, lets get to the point, if a man writes a blog post about his crippling fear of something that might seem easy overcome, like water, or rain. Does that make him weak? Admitting to society that he is not what he is supposed to be? No.

I'd also postulate that actually if she stood up to him, would he have stopped? Its unlikely, its a special type of person that stalks for 15 years.

Its also a shame that you didn't feel confident to air your views under your real account.