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Re:How Moving Is Linked to Losing Friends by cableshaft on Monday February 29, 2016 @11:24AM (#11196337)
Yep, I'm in the same situation as you. Had almost no social circle in my early thirties, but then I started attending meetups as well as getting into the hobbyist board game subculture.

Now it's a real challenge to spend time with everyone and yet save some time for myself and my creative hobbies.

Re:How Moving Is Linked to Losing Friends by eric-hu on Monday February 29, 2016 @12:12PM (#11196666)
Dedicating time to myself is the most challenging because the feedback loops are long and unpleasant. If I don't dedicate enough, I feel overwhelmed and maybe behave in a regrettable way. I usually don't have a problem dedicating too much time for myself, since there's many fun things to do with others or a friend in need.