Re:Introducing CloudFlare Registrar: Designed for Security, ...
by wantreprenr007 on Thursday February 25, 2016 @04:58AM
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Interesting. Just watched a Ben Horowitz interview containing the paraphrase quote "it's all rainbows, smiles and sunshine until someone stabs you in the back."
People tend (not always) have habit of changing when valuations increase, another reason trust and relationships pre-venture are more valuable for when things get interesting.
Consider it a cheap lesson overall about gradual ebb/flow of trust, and that people's (mis)behavior either self-selects them in or out of the running for future opportunities... their punishment is their lives.
Re:Introducing CloudFlare Registrar: Designed for Security, ...
by newman314 on Thursday February 25, 2016 @12:33PM
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Or as I read somewhere: "Money does not change people, it merely amplifies who they really are"
Re:Introducing CloudFlare Registrar: Designed for Security, ...
by wantreprenr007 on Thursday February 25, 2016 @08:02PM
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It's perceived risk/reward opportunity for getting away with something (ethics)... better to test a potential cofounder beforehand (know them well before) than find out later with random founders that could be crooks. Plus, having overlapping social ties with cofounders, investors, customers, etc. tends to reduce trust and risk issues because their reputation means something.
Another thing I say: a contract or any agreement is only as good as relationship on which is written.
Re:Introducing CloudFlare Registrar: Designed for Security, ...
by brightball on Thursday February 25, 2016 @09:44AM
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Wisdom here:
> Consider it a cheap lesson overall about gradual ebb/flow of trust
I was fortunate enough to be able to go on an overseas trip to China during my first college summer break. The phone and Internet service was spotty, but I was too busy exploring to care. When I got back home, I discovered much to my dismay that my domain name had been transferred away without my consent.
As it turns out, one of my old Internet "friends" had access to an administrative account at my registrar without my knowledge. They transferred a handful of my domains to their own private account and continued to run the website as if it had been their own. They moved the database, code, and everything. (I had allowed them access to the server, so it wasn't unexpected that this was within their capability.)
Being a college kid, I wasn't able to think of lawyers or legal avenues to get it back (not could I afford them), so I wrote my "friend" out of my life and took it as a hard lesson learned about privacy and security. And trust. Definitely learned a lot about trust.
FWIW, it's still online today and probably brings in a thousand dollars a month in ad revenue.