OP shouldn't wait around and hope for scraps. He or she should go get that new job and return with an offer in hand. 0.2% while making 45k in a seed round is a joke. She or he's gonna exit the seed with options on 0.15% of the company, and be down to 0.05 at best after a C.

OP got screwed and needs to fix it; use angel.co, the hiring thread on the first of every month, ventureloop, craigslist, or linkedin.