Re:What Keeps Couples Happy Long Term
by JoeAltmaier on Tuesday February 09, 2016 @09:58AM
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Or, just understand that those are the standard topics and begin conversing. Nobody needs to tick boxes on a form.
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Re:What Keeps Couples Happy Long Term
by Diederich on Tuesday February 09, 2016 @04:32PM
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Right. In the beginning, for the first few years, it did approach 'tick boxes on a form' from time to time. Note, though, that each partner is free to answer each question in any way they want to. Sometimes, it was "Uh, nothing surprising. What I really want to talk about is...."
Some ceremony led to highly consistent, timely communication. The latter is the goal, the former is just a tool.