I find a plumber or electrician analogy works pretty well here. They have a job to do, there are only so many ways to do it that aren't stark raving mad, and they'll be fucked if they're going to do it your way because your ten minutes of thinking about the problem space informs you it's the 'right thing to do'.
Not the worlds greatest advice, not the way I would want someone to start off doing, but something I am and feel I had to do to make my life more meaningful. Good luck!