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A comment on Ask HN: Tldr due to startup anxiety gf has left me, how do i get her back?.

Re:Ask HN: Tldr due to startup anxiety gf has left me, how d... by dopesavant on Saturday December 26, 2015 @04:00PM (#10795291)
I dont know how I feel about this one. I feel she should be the one helping/supporting you through your down period and not leaving you when stuff is messed up
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Re:Ask HN: Tldr due to startup anxiety gf has left me, how d... by mrmincent on Saturday December 26, 2015 @04:11PM (#10795335)
Relationships are a two way deal. It sounds like it has been going for a while, at least several months. She has every right to put herself first if she's been in an unhappy situation for a long time.

I went through a down period a few years back, lost my gf of 5 years to it. Her leaving removed my saftey crutch and forced me to get my own shit together. Sounds like it's what the OP might need too.

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Re:Ask HN: Tldr due to startup anxiety gf has left me, how d... by r2dnb on Saturday December 26, 2015 @04:02PM (#10795300)
Man, they didn't have sex for months. The problem comes from the OP, he needs to build his emotional maturity.
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Re:Ask HN: Tldr due to startup anxiety gf has left me, how d... by bluebluetimes on Saturday December 26, 2015 @10:15PM (#10796259)
it was due to stress and yelling and tiring her emotionally as well
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Re:Ask HN: Tldr due to startup anxiety gf has left me, how d... by cheez on Saturday December 26, 2015 @04:02PM (#10795301)
That's unreasonable. They haven't had sex in months. Anyway, OP should chalk this up as a learning experience and move on. Develop a more balanced lifestyle.
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