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Re:My positive experience as a woman in tech by scintill76 on Friday December 18, 2015 @07:25AM (#10758073)
What if the reason she was "singled out" was actually that she was the only person the swearer didn't know well enough to feel OK about swearing around? Or was the only one he considered to be in earshot? Or she was just the closest and he felt he should make some gesture because he regretted it, but it wasn't bad enough to personally apologize to every last person?

I guess the author's impression trumps ours (and only the swearer's honest account of his thoughts could trump hers), but she didn't really address those, so I have some doubts on whether it's as clear-cut as you say.

Re:My positive experience as a woman in tech by leaverou on Friday December 18, 2015 @04:38PM (#10761153)
Nope. There were many people around, and it was clear that he didn’t know all of them. There were people he didn't know just as close as I was. He apologized only to me, nobody else.
Re:My positive experience as a woman in tech by scintill76 on Friday December 18, 2015 @06:14PM (#10761628)
Thanks for the clarification. If you don't mind sharing more and if you remember, what was the exact usage of the word? It seems like some of them could be construed as sexist, as I referred to in another comment. So maybe that was why he was apologizing. I assume you didn't think it was sexist (or you would have said so), but maybe he was concerned it could be interpreted that way.

(If that's the case, he shouldn't have said it regardless of who was around, but once he said it, apologizing with some amount of sincerity would be better than not apologizing.)

Re:My positive experience as a woman in tech by leaverou on Friday December 18, 2015 @07:25PM (#10761976)
It's been years but I think it was just exclamation. Like "oh, fuck!".