Desperate not to have children

Re:Desperate not to have children by dogma1138 on Monday November 23, 2015 @04:03PM (#10617276)

Life isn't fair, this will not ever be possible biology and modern values make it so. You have other options, get a vasectomy or RISUG, use a condom and wait for the male contraceptive pill to come to market if you still some how manage to reproduce then you'll be the unluckiest person on the planet. You can't force a woman to give up a child anymore than you can force her to bare one, most things in life have some risk associated with them,so does sex.

The problem is that there won't be a system that will allow for men to say "I don't want it" which won't be exploited, and children suffer, it suck yes, but we should rather focus on ensuring that both parents will have fair access to the child and act in it's best interests.

BTW if the woman gets another partner who becomes the legal parent of the child then you are in the clear for child support in most cases.

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Re:Desperate not to have children by Zikes on Monday November 23, 2015 @04:13PM (#10617351)

Life isn't fair, but justice ought to be.

> The problem is that there won't be a system that will allow for men to say "I don't want it" which won't be exploited, and children suffer

Exploitability holds less weight to me than legal fairness. "Think of the children" is more often than not used to justify facilitating unfair actions, in my view.

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