Re:Rainbow, Binary, Debt Friendship Bracelets
by tomp on Sunday October 18, 2015 @07:34PM
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I'm not sure I follow your conclusion. Assuming random walk increments are 1 (or less), it would indeed take some time to reach 63 (although you will reach it with probability 1), but in case the increments are greater (e.g. a 30-50$ dinner), you'll quickly go over $63.
The point of "keeping score" is that you can bias the debt process and make it mean-reverting. You're always guaranteed to split costs less than $63 evenly, and can possibly even split a cost of up to $126 in a fair way.
Re:Rainbow, Binary, Debt Friendship Bracelets
by belovedeagle on Sunday October 18, 2015 @07:36PM
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The point was that the walk isn't random, and that if it were unguided, the participants believed it would be unbounded.
Presumably it's easy to stay within $63 when the decisions are guided.
Re:Rainbow, Binary, Debt Friendship Bracelets
by roel_v on Monday October 19, 2015 @01:50AM
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But how so isn't it random? The article doesn't say, unless I misunderstood.
Re:Rainbow, Binary, Debt Friendship Bracelets
by shaftway on Monday October 19, 2015 @01:57PM
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Isn't it painfully obvious? They're discussing joint events, like dinner. Whoever owes money in the relationship pays.
Re:Rainbow, Binary, Debt Friendship Bracelets
by roel_v on Monday October 19, 2015 @08:27PM
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I guess I'm daft, but if they'd just flip a coin each time on who pays, in the long run they'd each pay the same, if each payment event were to be random (let's even say within an upper limit, to keep the 'in the long run' within the lifespan of their relationship). Why wouldn't the dollar amounts of these events be essentially random?
Re:Rainbow, Binary, Debt Friendship Bracelets
by kelnos on Monday October 19, 2015 @02:27AM
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This struck me as surprising as well. I personally find not making a big deal out of shared expenses much more freeing to the mind than keeping track of it. I do this with friends as well as SOs; my philosophy is that it all evens out, somewhere. But... different strokes for different folks, I guess.
Regardless, this is just so adorably nerdy. Or nerdily adorable. Either way.
Re:Rainbow, Binary, Debt Friendship Bracelets
by pjc50 on Monday October 19, 2015 @05:55AM
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What kind of relationship would someone have to have in order to not want to give their significant other a gift of $63 dollars, total over the entire relationship?
It's not about gifts, it's about shared expenses, and quite a lot of people want their relationships to be egalitarian. Rather than have one partner 'supporting' the other.
The $63 dollar debt limit is acceptable because the random walk will (apparently) almost never go over this number. That is, the difference between this and nothing is at most $63 dollars worth of avoided inequality.
What kind of relationship would someone have to have in order to not want to give their significant other a gift of $63 dollars, total over the entire relationship?