Re:Seattle, in Midst of Tech Boom, Tries to Keep Its Soul
by pera on Thursday October 08, 2015 @04:05PM
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I had only lived in big cities before (Buenos Aires and NYC) where is very unusual to have any kind of interaction with strangers. In my experience here people starts conversations all the time in almost any public space (grocery stores, parks, buses, etc.) and I have to say that I'm not used to that haha but I really enjoy it. I wonder if this is a neighborhood thing maybe?
Re:Seattle, in Midst of Tech Boom, Tries to Keep Its Soul
by dynomight on Thursday October 08, 2015 @05:14PM
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Yes. I grew up in Seattle and people rarely make eye contact. It's terrible. It wasn't until I visited other areas that I realized that it wasn't just me.
People here do want to be forced out of their shell though. If you don't require the slightest bit of affirmation in your personality, you'll do fine in Seattle. If not you'll most certainly get the blues. I do fine on some days and then sometimes it's just a chore.
Re:Seattle, in Midst of Tech Boom, Tries to Keep Its Soul
by seanmcdirmid on Thursday October 08, 2015 @07:44PM
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Sounds like Finland/Scandinavia. Well, they were the ones to supposedly settle Ballard, I guess.
I find Seattle to be unwelcoming, personally, but it's not that people aren't friendly when you can get them to talk. It's the pervasive avoidance of eye contact and general desire not to engage with strangers that can make it a lonely place.