I'm going to make a lame attempt to coin a term and call this the Arch Fallacy, which is when you look at your goal and assume anything not present in it is unnecessary to achieve it. A completed arch contains no supports within it, but you'll have a tough time building one without any.
Native speakers are taught some rules, but many are rarely taught unless a student has learning difficulties. The adjective ordering that OP mentions is a solid example. Others include aspiration of stops; voicing assimilation in words like "bets" and "beds"; the difference between "putting up" and "putting out"; why it's (sometimes) okay to say "Hey fucker" to your best friend, but not to your teacher; and the deletion of nominative arguments in subjunctive phrases.
Second language learners often (maybe always) find more rules useful, for several reasons. However, those who learn the language in highly rule-focused manner often have difficulty actually communicating in the same way that Computer Science professors are sometimes quite knowledgeable about CS theory, but unable to produce good code. Rules are good at telling you what not to do, but bad at helping you be creative.
I wouldn't say that one should learn in a rule-focused manner, but neither should one learn completely by example. A mix is best, even when your goal is to have the rules fall away in the end.
This page has a good video of the combined structure and the process of shifting the roadway load from the temporary bridge to the cables:
http://baybridgeinfo.org/projects/sas
The background image on the page is also nice, showing all three bridges together:
http://baybridgeinfo.org/sites/default/files/images/backgrou...
Funny thing is on first reading, I didn't notice that at all and read it the way you meant. I only saw the typo on a second reading. Interesting autocorrect the brain does.
In any case I like your Arch Fallacy! I think I will use it.
I'll use it too, it's great and I don't recall any term for that particular error in thinking. I've already started spreading it (the name, not the error) among friends, hoping it will catch on.
But in principle I agree with you. We need a bit of book learning to go with the "just start speaking" approach.
http://www.nthuleen.com/teach/grammar/adjektivendungenexpl.h...
I'm using Duolingo now and after I'm finished with it I want to get some formal classes to (hopefully) get to a B1 level. I wouldn't call Duolingo immersion learning though -- they explicitly provide grammatical rules (unless you're using the mobile app which lacks some features) and it's very difficult and frustrating to try to do it with your intuition alone.
I also liked the explanation of cases and adjective endings from this site: http://yourdailygerman.com/learn-german-online-course/