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Re:How Many People Can You Remember? by mistermann on Thursday September 24, 2015 @09:44AM (#10271506)
I'm absolutely horrendous at remembering both names and faces so would be very interested to hear suggestions of techniques or tools one can use to assist remembering people.

"You can repeat the person’s name back to her while you’re talking to her, Harris says, “although the best strategy is simply to show more interest in the people you meet."

I've tried this with no luck, I will still forget a person's name within 60 seconds.

It almost seems like I have a portion of my brain missing, and I've always been like this for anything involving memorization. Going over a list of names on a regular basis helps, but very little. However, my spatial recall seems to be much better - if I have a seating plan for example, for some reason I can easily associate a person with where they sit, but I simply cannot remember their name even if I deal with them fairly regularly.

Re:How Many People Can You Remember? by andygcook on Thursday September 24, 2015 @01:35PM (#10273123)
The human brain is actually wired to remember visuals over abstract concepts. This is why you're so good at remembering faces and the places you meet people, but not names. Names are abstract, so they are hard to remember,

The best way to remember names is to actually turn that person's name into a mental image, then tie it to the location where you met them. This gives your brain a mental image of someone's name, and when you see there face again, you'll recall the component cues of their name.

For example, my name is Andy Cook, so you might imagine me standing next to a life sized Raggedy Andy doll wearing a chef's hat + apron. When you see me again, you're likely to remember the image and put the name together. The other nice thing about this technique is that it forces you to stop and commit someone's name to memory instead of letting it go in one ear and out the other.

Re:How Many People Can You Remember? by logfromblammo on Thursday September 24, 2015 @11:33AM (#10272184)
Same here. I have actually forgotten someone's given name before they even finished saying their surname.

But I can also, without referencing maps, compass, or GPS, return to places I last visited over 20 years ago.

The spouse will frequently reel off narratives on travel itineraries, despite the number of times I have begged for a calendar or timeline instead. It just goes in one ear and out the other. Arrange it as a map, however, and I have no problem.

It would be great if I could figure out some way to map names and faces to locations, but nothing I have tried ever seems to work, beyond actual cubicle or office locations. And then, if you move to a different spot in the same office, I might forget who you are.

Re:How Many People Can You Remember? by inanutshellus on Thursday September 24, 2015 @04:01PM (#10274268)
I thought this about myself until my first "real" job. I was really nervous and wanted to make a good impression and memorized 20 peoples' names in one meeting, remembering them at least for the next couple days. (After that, those I didn't see were forgotten.)

Point is... I was super-focused on paying attention, and poof my "Hi, George. Nice to meet you. Wait, what was your name?" problem was gone... though only for that day.