The actual mechanism by which this occurs is only "spooky" if you try and interpret it classically. But if you just accept that "hey, it's quantum mechanics" then it's very easy to understand. Same as I can't visualise a 5-sphere but I have mathematical tools to work with one.
I can't "picture" the mechanism that allows measurements of quantum states to be anti-correlated, but I can use maths to express that behaviour and make predictions about how the universe behaves.
I think that if the explanation doesn't also convey the spookiness, it's not right.
>The actual mechanism by which this occurs is only "spooky" if you try and interpret it classically. But if you just accept that "hey, it's quantum mechanics" then it's very easy to understand.
That's just pushing the spookiness under the carpet.
If that was the case (the coin analogy) it would be perfectly understandable by classical physics.
In fact it wouldn't even need physics to understand it, just common sense.
If that was the case there wouldn't be any EPR paradox etc.
The coin analogy is very misleading in this way -- and doesn't convey the problems physicists have had with explaining this phenomenon.