The vast majority of the Linux community has no influence on the development of systemd and its cloud of closely related software. What's more, Poettering & co. are notoriously opinionated and bullheaded. This makes attempts to steer "their" projects in new directions all but impossible.
If Debian had moved from SysV init to -say- OpenRC, systemd would be a strictly RedHat curiosity. [0] If my experience with Kubuntu 15.04 is typical [1], we might see some pushback from -at a minimum- Canonical.
The Linux kernel hackers asked some serious technical questions about kdbus (another Poettering Cabal project) back during the 4.1 merge window. The answers that they got back were less than satisfying. I haven't been following the kdbus project closely since then, but AIUI, the objections raised have yet to be addressed.
[0] It's a pity that that conversation was not on my radar when it first started; I would have loved to get up to speed on OpenRC and attempt to address the Debian folks' concerns with it!
[1] Systemd boot times are 2->10x slower than boot times with Upstart (and the systemd boot time reporting software provides incorrect numbers), and systemd system shutdowns occasionally hang forever, requiring the use of SysRq key combos to kill the machine.
Theo is basically who Poettering would be if he forked Linux (and was less whiny). He probably hasn't because it would be a ton of work and few people would use it, and he couldn't benefit from the base of support of the Linux ecosystem. There's a lot of crap out there that's Linux-only now, or officially only supports certain distros. It makes much more sense to convince someone to shoehorn your code into their distro than to make your own.
Few desktop users ever notice it, most server admins aren't really that knowledgeable, and most devs just write userland code. I think most people don't think about how much more of a headache things have become. After all, hasn't Linux/UNIX always been a headache, relatively speaking?
These personal insults make it difficult for people to take the anti-systemd crowd seriously.
Red Hat revenue FY2015: $1.79 billion
They can allocate developers to systemd far, far beyond the capability for any other Linux organisation or group who might be developing an alternative approach.
Basically steamrollering systemd into the GNU / Linux environment.
I love OpenBSD. I know it's too limited to be for everyone, but it suits my purposes quite well. And I can confidently assert that, for as long as Theo is the not-so-benevolent dictator for life, that OpenBSD will never have anything as messy and complex as systemd.
What I don't understand is how the vast majority of the Linux community is not just allowing, but encouraging, systemd to continue to grow without bound.