And commuting is expensive. I have a 10 minute bike ride right now, there's no way I could afford to live close enough to SV to bike to work. It's almost enough to erase the rest of the cost difference. http://www.niallkennedy.com/blog/2006/03/silicon-valley-comm...
$100K/year - 35% - $1K/month = $53K/year
$100K/year - 35% - $2.4K/month = $36.2K/year
$130K/year - 35% - $2.4K/month = $55.7K/yearThe guy living in the $1k apartment land has a better financial life. (Also, good luck finding a place for $2,400 in SF right now that matches what you can get for $1k in most other parts of the country.)
In fact, pretty much everything you'll spend money on as a normal adult is more expensive here. I actually can't think of anything that wouldn't be more expensive, unless it's something that's already an obscene luxury good, like a Ferrari.
Your only argument here seems to be that you can make a calculated bet to pay off student loans, because 78% of $130k ($101k) is larger than 88% of 100k ($88k). Maybe, but good luck with that: I think you'll find that the cost of living easily consumes the difference.
$2000 student loan payment + $1000 rent, at $70,000 salary would be tough.
$2000 student loan payment + $2500 rent, at $140,000 salary is do-able.
I agree about the smaller "cost of living" items though.
Obviously, this ignore taxes but the increased salary can more than make up for extremely high rents.