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I really appreciate this level of transparency. Thank you for being a good person in such a powerful position in the world.

Probably because he could check legalities of a release himself without council. It is probably equivalent to educating yourself on your rights and laws so if you get pulled over by a cop who may try to do things that you can legally refuse, you can say no.

I do the same, but I slightly modify this. Sometimes I respond fast, but a lot of times I like to say “I have an idea that is not thought out but what if…” and go on. That gives me time to process it and I can bounce a terrible idea out of others and I can say “ok yeah like I said I didn’t think it through but it was a bad idea” or it can be refined and clarified. I use the group to think it through with me. It helps.

That in itself disproves your point though. That’s talking about a specific characteristic: mislabeling. It is really the symptom of someone talking about something they don’t know enough about to be talking about it.

Some people say ADHD for example is overdiagnosed. Perhaps that is true so college kids can get drugs or kids can be calmed down, but it is like saying people who don’t always wear glasses don’t need them and shouldn’t bother.

There are people who genuinely struggle with these things because their brains literally don’t work the same as everyone else. I have ADHD and struggle to be on time to things and god forbid even early. Getting a diagnosis was a life saver because at least I don’t beat myself up for not trying harder.

A diagnosis isn’t a “label”, but understanding of how someone works. It is like being diagnosed with myopia: it explains why your kid can’t keep up in school because they literally can’t see the chalkboard (me, had glasses before finishing 1st grade).

So, no we can’t drop the diagnosis. Chances are you may have something too and not realize it. Does that make you less human? No. It just means you think a little different.

Assuming you grew up in a loving home with stability, in theory you learn life skills as a kid that you don’t need training as an adult for. However, most people don’t have loving parents that stay together, love each other, and can teach you every skill. Some don’t know they have a brain that is different, and need specialized training that works with them. Because of childhood trauma and ADHD, I have had to learn other techniques to handle my life and executive dysfunction. Finally approaching 40 I’m starting to put it together.

So no, we can’t discard the diagnosis. It isn’t a label or problem, but an explanation and scientifically proven reason for the problematic behaviors seen.

Can you request the slides be sent ahead of time so you can think of ideas?