throwaway_ajhd4

I agree with you. I think the diagnosis is a double edged sword. It gives people a crutch. Like you, I'm "on the spectrum" but I don't want to know what the technical diagnosis is. It would just let me use my "condition" as an excuse for things (or at least that's how I would use it, and how most other's I've had the occasion to observe do use it).

I find this is the case with most mental health diagnoses. They can be valuable from a treatment perspective, sometimes, but most of the time it just lets someone feel sorry for themselves or excuse poor behavior. You don't get to mope around just because you're depressed, and you don't get to be a dick just because you're on the spectrum.