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Uhm, what language do you think all the Apache modules (mod_rewrite, mod_perl, mod_php, etc.) are written in? They're all either C or C++, so by your logic all of Apache won't give you warm fuzzy feelings.
"Neither does the fact that mod_rails just flat-out doesn't work on OS X,"
This is false. Passenger does work on OS X, but because of an issue in the default Apache installation provided by OS X, Passenger is unable to work. If one installs Apache via MacPorts (or some other means) then Passenger will work just fine. In fact, the installer warns the user about exactly this issue.
Many, many people have tested Passenger on OS X, and it works fine for them. Ryan Bates of Railscasts, the one who made the screencast, used OS X. Pratik Naik, a Ruby on Rails core developer who helped with testing Passenger, used OS X.
Kind regards, Hongli Lai Ninh Bui Phusion.nl
Regarding documentation, we think you'll be more than pleased to see that we've gone the extra mile on this part. If anything, we hate bad documentation as well, so we really intended on tackling this with Passenger ;-). For more information regarding Passenger, be sure to keep a close eye out on http://phusion.nl, http://www.modrails.com, http://izumi.plan99.net/blog and http://ninh.nl as we'll be posting more about it the following few days/weeks.
Kind regards, Hongli Lai Ninh Bui - phusion.nl